Book of Memories for James J. Sellers

Story shared: My fan club

Fri, 08 Oct 2010 13:17:11 EDT

My deepest sympathy to the family of Jim Sellers family and to his many other friends. Of the many fond and humorous memories, one of the most memorable was of my "fan club," which was organized at The Doghouse and consisted largely of Emory Younkins, Pat Dalton and Jim. Often my band played played out in Derby, a waitress would step up to the stage, serve me a cold bottle of Miller High Life Beer followed by the message, "This is from your fan club," and an expression on her face that you would have had to see to appreciate. I regret that I never thanked Jim for giving me the proud distinction of being just the bass player of small-time local band with his very own fan club. Rest in peace Jim.

Thinking of You From Mary Sellers Pici

Mon, 26 Apr 2010 12:09:20 EDT

My parents told me that when I was 3 years old, I started asking my mother for a twin brother and sister. My mother was not too enthusiastic about this since she already had 4 children age 5 and under. I was not deterred. I started saving toys and clothes for my requested new siblings. I even named them. Jimmy James was my name for the boy. I was so young that I did not even realize this was two versions of the same name. I called the baby girl Rita. My parents were perplexed by this because they didn’t know anyone named Rita and they were at a loss as to how I came up with the name. I talked about my twins so much that people were asking my parents who Jimmy and Rita were. My mother would smile and reply that they were the babies Mary wanted. About a year later, my mother learned that she was expecting. Apparently, I went with her to one doctor visit. When she came out to the waiting room following her exam, I asked her quite clearly “did you tell the doctor that we want two?” People in the waiting room were starting to giggle so my mother tried to shush me. Mom said they only came one at a time. I stuck to my guns however and announced for all to hear that she should “go back in and tell the doctor that we want two!” There was no history of twins in our family. About a month before her due date, the doctor said he couldn’t hear more than one heart beat but based on Mom’s measurements he would like to do an x-ray to see if there was more than one baby. Imagine their surprise when my parents learned that twins were on the way. I wasn’t surprised however since I personally put the order in. When the twins arrived and they were in fact a boy and girl, my parents and relatives were stunned. Mom and Dad were discussing various names when my grandmother told my father that he needed to use the names that Mary gave the babies since she requested them and they were a “gift from God”. That is how James Joseph and Rita Marie joined our family. Growing up with the twins was like I had living dolls to play with. They were lots of fun but there were many times I would not have described them as gifts from God. Earlier this year, my brother Jim died suddenly from a heart attack. Our family always knew Jim was the ultimate Good Samaritan because he was known to help anyone in need. As we went through the wake and funeral, we were told by countless people how Jim had helped them out when they needed it most. His good deeds went far beyond what we knew. It then came to me that my gift of years ago was truly the gift that kept on giving. Jim gave to others his whole life. Jim, you will be missed by all those you helped and those who loved you. You were the best gift I ever received.

Thinking of You From trey gardner

Tue, 06 Apr 2010 10:32:12 EDT

Jim- we all will miss you. I will always remember your deep generosity even before we really knew each other. You were always so nice to our kids. I am glad I had the chance to get to know you. Prayers are with you.

Thinking of You From Meg Boller

Mon, 29 Mar 2010 12:44:37 EDT

My Uncle Jim was so kind and thoughtful. The year that the E.T. movie came out, I really wanted an E.T. doll for Christmas, but they were sold out at all the stores. Somehow, Uncle Jim was able to find one for me. I loved that doll! He also had a great sense of humor! Once we were out to dinner and I looked over at Uncle Jim. He had put the cucumbers from his salad over his eyes to make everyone laugh. He was so kind to animals. He loved his dogs and they loved him! We will miss him so much!

Condolence From Chuck Kron

Sat, 06 Mar 2010 08:34:38 EST

Some of my fondest and dearest memories of working for Charles J. Sellers & Co., Inc. included my interactions with Jim. Jim could always be counted on for his jovial, light-spirited, and candid approach to people, things and life in general. I've been out-of-touch with Jim for the past six years or so, but I'm betting he was still the same smiling and engaging guy that he was some time ago. To the Sellers family: I am terribly sorry for your loss. If I can ever provide you with a funny story about Jim (which I have a few), or help you in some other remote way, please do not hesitate to call me (Larry S. has my #). With sorrow and sadness, and wishes for stength through this difficult time, Your Friend, Chuck Kron

Condolence From Michael Somers

Fri, 05 Mar 2010 13:15:43 EST

For one of the few times in my life, I just can't find the words to express the depth of my sadness. I will hold our memories even closer than before. I will miss you like the brother that you were to me.

Condolence From Ken & Andrea Jakiel

Fri, 05 Mar 2010 13:08:16 EST

Jim has always been a long time family friend. With every moment filled with heart felt entertainment. His laugh and spirit of the moment will be sadly missed by all who knew him. Our sincere condolences to all his family.

Condolence From Louisa Minute

Fri, 05 Mar 2010 13:07:43 EST

To the Sellers Family, I feel this loss as if he were my own brother. Jim & I had a special connection from the first day I started working for the Agency to present. He always had a smile for me..a laugh..a story to tell..always ready to offer his help in any way you needed it...always took the time to say hello..no matter where we might run in to each other. I will remember how he hated my "smiley" faces or my sticky notes, and how Norma & I decorated his office one morning with an abundance of both..just to see his reaction. How we laughed. Jim,I will remember your smile, my friend, and always, always, that twinkle in your eye. We will meet again.

Condolence From William Caldwell and family

Fri, 05 Mar 2010 13:06:49 EST

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Condolence From Beth(Yeaton)tomaszewski and family

Fri, 05 Mar 2010 13:05:59 EST

Jim was a sweet,wonderful man and I'm glad was a dear friend to my family. You will be dearly missed Jim, God Bless.

Condolence From Judy meyers/whitehead

Fri, 05 Mar 2010 13:04:09 EST

We were so shocked and saddened to hear of your loss of such a young man, please extend our sympathies to your family. I can only hope that your fond memories of Jim can give you some comfort during this terrible time.

Condolence From Dave & Linda Pezzimenti

Fri, 05 Mar 2010 13:01:22 EST

Deepest condolence to the sellers family on your lost. Having known Jim as a friend and as a officer of the moose He was a great person. He will be missed greatly.

Condolence From The Manges Family

Fri, 05 Mar 2010 12:55:06 EST

May you be at peace Jim. You will be missed.

Condolence From John & Kindal Dowling

Fri, 05 Mar 2010 12:53:49 EST

Jim, you have touched so many people.Rest in peace my friend. May God bless the Sellers family and friends.We will forever miss/love you.

Condolence From Joe and Betty Lafferty

Fri, 05 Mar 2010 12:52:48 EST

Tom,Charles and Family, Betty and I were sorry to hear of your loss, may your brother James rest in peace.

Condolence From Alexis and Tom (Woodman) Lucko

Fri, 05 Mar 2010 12:51:22 EST

Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

Condolence From DONALD ZOGARIA

Fri, 05 Mar 2010 12:50:13 EST

Fifteen years I have known you. You became my brother and one of my dearest friends. I will miss you greatly. Rest in peace big guy, you had a Heart of Gold. My prayers will be with you and your family. Love Don Zogaria

Condolence From Linda & Ted Kinney

Fri, 05 Mar 2010 12:48:45 EST

Eileen and Mike, We are so sorry for your sudden loss. May his soul and all the souls of the faithful departed through the mercy of God, rest in peace. Amen

Condolence From Janine Picone-Strade

Fri, 05 Mar 2010 12:47:58 EST

My deepest sympathy to Jimmy's entire family during this difficult time. May the wonderful memories of him get you through the days ahead. God Bless~ Janine Picone -Strade, Bailey & Connor

Condolence From michael smith

Fri, 05 Mar 2010 12:44:40 EST

jim your a good friend you will be miss by many and to young to have left us we all will be better to have know you for short time on this earth we will all see you again when it is our time to leave.m.smith and family

Condolence From Agnes Luka

Fri, 05 Mar 2010 12:42:12 EST

My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

Condolence From JoAnn & Russ Scalzi

Fri, 05 Mar 2010 12:41:08 EST

Dear Charles, Tom, Mary & Eileen & Sellers family, Please know that all of you are in my thoughts and prayers at this time of sorrow. I am sorry not to be there to share with you the loss of your bother Jim. He was a fine person, always there to lend a hand, especially when I was running the folding machine. (I really needed that help). May Our Lord bless each of you with Peace and love. JoAnn & Russell Scalzi

Condolence From Kelly Somers

Fri, 05 Mar 2010 12:35:58 EST

To my Friend, my "angel" as I called him. I will never forget you you held a special place in my heart....until we meet again, I know my "angel" is now smiling down on all of us.

Condolence From Kathy (Rivers) Donohue

Fri, 05 Mar 2010 12:34:17 EST

I am so unbelievably sad at this news. The memory of Jim's kindness and friendship with my family will always be a fond one. You are all in my thoughts and prayers.

Condolence From Rick Manguso

Fri, 05 Mar 2010 12:31:59 EST

Jim was a very nice man and always treated my family and me with kindness. He will be missed by his many many friends. We wish our heartfelt condolences to the entire family. God Bless Jimmy and his family. Rick and Lucy Manguso Family

Condolence From Judy Meade

Fri, 05 Mar 2010 12:30:56 EST

My deepest sympathy to the Sellers Family and to the members of the Angola Moose, Jimmy will be missed dearly. He was a great man. He always had a friendly smile on his face. Rest in Peace Jim.

Condolence From Adam Hughes

Fri, 05 Mar 2010 12:29:43 EST

Sellers family, I am so sorry to hear about your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you during this sad time. -Adam

Condolence From Kathy Hontz

Fri, 05 Mar 2010 12:29:30 EST

He was my friend for only seven years but it felt like a life time I will miss you Jim

Condolence From Tina and Adam DeForrest

Fri, 05 Mar 2010 12:23:50 EST

Jimmy, You will be missed so very much!!!We will treasure the times we had with you at the moose and schuylers.I will miss your Wit,Hugs of affection and Laughter we shared.Rest in peace our friend..You will be missed by all. Love,Tina and Adam DeForrest (SHEALY) To Jimmy's family our prayers are with you in the days ahead.Jim was a very special man and will be missed terribly.

Condolence From Larry Jakiel

Fri, 05 Mar 2010 12:18:52 EST

Jim was a great guy. Always, a laugh was had when we had a moment together. I will miss him. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.

Condolence From Pat Dalton

Fri, 05 Mar 2010 12:16:38 EST

For over 30 years I known you. You became my brother and great friend. You show great kindness to me and my family. I will miss your hugs. You had a heart of gold.Rest in peace my friend, my brother. Pat Dalton and family.

Condolence From Thomas Mackert

Fri, 05 Mar 2010 12:11:37 EST

You were a friend when I needed you to be. A brother when I needed you to be. Sometimes even a second Dad when I needed you to be. You were a true friend in every sense of the word to me and many others. My condolences to the Sellers Family during this difficult time.

Condolence From Lyn and Thom Braun SERVPRO of the Southtowns

Fri, 05 Mar 2010 12:10:22 EST

Our deepest sympathy goes to the Sellers Family during this difficult time. All of us here loved working with Jim he always had a smile on his face and a kind word to say. We will miss his kindness the most.

Condolence From Stephanie Tsakos Callari

Fri, 05 Mar 2010 12:07:27 EST

My deepest sympathy to the entire Sellers family. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Condolence From Nancy Hawes

Fri, 05 Mar 2010 12:06:37 EST

We would like to extend our sincere condolences to the Sellers Family in the loss of Jim. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all. Paul and Nancy Hawes

Condolence From Christine Mittner

Fri, 05 Mar 2010 12:05:30 EST

To the Sellers Family: My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort, as mine will. Xoxoxo, Christine F. Mittner

Condolence From Doug and Judy

Fri, 05 Mar 2010 12:04:02 EST

God bless you Jim. We will meet again some day. To Charlie, Ann and family, our sincerest sympathy. Doug and Judy, The Villages, Fl

Condolence From Pici Family

Fri, 05 Mar 2010 12:00:20 EST

Mary,Joe,Mikey,Carolyn and the Sellers Family We were deeply saddened to hear of your loss. We only knew Jim through Mary and occasional meetings at family gatherings. Mary is our family so when she is hurting we are hurting with her. Your brother, brother in law and uncle was far too young for you to have lost him so suddenly. Please know that you are in our prayers and as everyone says keep him alive with "Memories". Love you, Uncle Marty, Aunt Vita, Jason, Jennifer, Fran, Marty,Little Marty Ann, Chuck, C.J. and Rebecca

Condolence From Nick Popovski

Fri, 05 Mar 2010 11:56:25 EST

Jimmy, all the years I've known you you've been like a brother to me. They used to call you, me and Donnie the "three amigos". May you rest in peace, brother.

Condolence From The Popovski Family

Fri, 05 Mar 2010 11:55:33 EST

Jim you will be missed greatly by the Popovski family. Words cannot express the memories, laughs, and times we have shared with you. Your smile and laugh will forever be in our hearts. We will forever love you. Rest in peace Uncle Jimmy <3

Condolence From Denise Harman

Fri, 05 Mar 2010 11:54:46 EST

My deepest Sympathy to the Sellers Family. Jim's smile and kindness will forever be remembered. "May the road rise up to meet you, may the wind be ever at your back. May the sun shine warm upon your face and the rain fall softly on your fields. And until we meet again, may God hold you in the hollow of his hand"

Condolence From Peter Caldwell

Fri, 05 Mar 2010 11:53:13 EST

my brother Jim, you have given so much to so many people. you are one of my dearest friends and as hard as it is to say good bye, you will be at peace in heaven with the angels and the lord our god. i will never forget you and promise to think of you often, my deepest sympathy goes out to the entire sellers family. my prayers are with you all. love Peter Caldwell and family

Condolence From AnnMarie Smith-Doyka

Fri, 05 Mar 2010 11:51:17 EST

My Sincere condolences to the Sellers family. Jim has been a wonderful friend of the family and I feel blessed to have met him. Although I have only known Jim for a short period of time, I know he had a heart of gold.

Condolence From John Dowling

Fri, 05 Mar 2010 11:50:29 EST

Jimmy, Our days will be long, our hearts will be hard, the fact that remains is that you are our Angle in the sky. I will never be the same. You were always there for me and guided me I will forever miss you buddy, my friend and my "brother". Thanks so much for all you did for me and the great memories!!! I LOVE YOU JIMMY

Condolence From Bob and Casey Caldwell

Fri, 05 Mar 2010 11:47:38 EST

As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.

Condolence From James & Norma Czosnyka

Fri, 05 Mar 2010 11:40:41 EST

Over 26 years -- the entire Sellers family has been a family to us as well - the deepest sypathy and prayers are with you and we will always be there for you. Jim, You have always been like a brother to us,you are family, you are one of the greatest deerest friends. Many many memories, always there for each other. We have learned together, laughed together, cried together and sometimes even got in trouble together!!! But most of all we got the time to know each other and be together and build memories. This will never be goodbye, it is see you soon, you have only moved to another home, to a beautiful peaceful place where anything and everything is possible and your vegetable garden will be as great as you always dreamed.(Oh,Jim, this is Norma - and don't worry, Louisa and I checked it out, there are smiley faces in heaven-and if you don't find them, don't worry, we will be there someday to help you out:) You will always be smiling and having fun in our memories. Our hearts a deeply hurting but you will be in them for ever and know that you are always there and watching. We will definitely be together again someday. Until then may godbless and keep you at his side. And we know you will be one of the Guardian Angels watching over us (you know every once in a while we need one..lol.) Love Always and godbless dear friend, Norma & Jim

Condolence From Herk and Kim Carlson

Fri, 05 Mar 2010 08:06:09 EST

Those who have given of themselves to others will live forever in every single heart they touched. Jim will live forever in our hearts and so many others, our memories of his joy and laughter will be with us always. We are so thankful that we got to spend a evening together not long ago to laugh and share stories of our younger days. Thanks for the memories.....peace be with you my friend.

Condolence From chuck&diane klepfer

Thu, 04 Mar 2010 12:49:43 EST

We are very saddened by everyones loss.JJ was a very loving ,sharing&caring soul.we loved him like a brother and i`m sure the sentiments were shared by him as well.WE hope you will all move on but never get totally over this.Jimmy deserves to be remembered forever in our hearts and thoughts god bless him and you all.

Condolence From Marilyn E.Cook

Thu, 04 Mar 2010 09:58:58 EST

I can't believe this has happened. I am very sad for all of the family. You all have our sympathies. Jim was a great guy. I remember all of the years I worked with him.

Condolence From Debbie Saracina

Thu, 04 Mar 2010 09:46:49 EST

To the Sellers family - My condolences to each of you. May happy memories carry your through this difficult time. Jim is a special person, he was very kind to me and so many others, although I have not seen him for years I can still hear his laughter and see his childish fabulous smile. "God Bless you Jim."

Condolence From Louise & Ron Peters

Thu, 04 Mar 2010 06:17:28 EST

To the Sellers Family, Please accept my sympathy. Jim was always great to work with and a lot of fun. He always treated me with respect. He will be missed. Louise Peters

Condolence From Rosanne Kowalski

Thu, 04 Mar 2010 04:34:58 EST

Our thoughts and prayers are with your family.

Condolence From Christine F. Mittner

Thu, 04 Mar 2010 04:20:47 EST

To the Sellers family and beloved friends: My thoughts and prayers are with all of you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort, as mine will. Jimmy was a great man and will be greatly missed by many.

Condolence From Tina DeForrest(Shealy)

Thu, 04 Mar 2010 04:00:35 EST

Jimmy will always have a place in my heart and thoughts.They say every time your heart gets a crinkle in it.It's just like foil, once opened back up it will always be crinkled from the hurt you have dealt with and will never be the same.Jimmy's passing has crinkled my heart and will never be the same. God bless you Jimmy! Someday we will all be together to have one last Irish shot together.Your passing has crinkled my heart but, will always keep you in it's memory. Love, Tina DeForrest

Condolence From Michael Somers

Thu, 04 Mar 2010 03:49:33 EST

You WERE halfway to heaven before the devil knew you were gone. A true Irishman wouldn't have it any other way. Your memory will forever be ingrained in my heart and soul. Good bye my brother and friend.

Condolence From Jessyca Riehle

Thu, 04 Mar 2010 03:45:59 EST

I was very sad when I heard the news about Jim. My condolences go to the Sellers Family. He was a great man who could make anyone laugh. I will miss seeing his smiling face. Jessyca Riehle SERVPRO of The Southtowns

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Wed, 03 Mar 2010 15:25:35 EST

Thinking of You From Mike & Eileen Fitzgibbons

Wed, 30 Nov -0001 00:00:00 EST

Jim always ran instead of walked as we grew up together. He lived a short time chronologically but he had over 100 years of activity in that short time. We all knew how to use a butterfly bandage because of Jim being in such a hurry all the time and getting bumps and bruises along the way. Our parents would chuckle over Jim's report cards when he was in Kindergarten and "doing a good job of learning to keep his hands to himself." Jim was fun, kind and loving. He was the person we called on when we needed help and he relied on us when he needed help. Jim made our mother's vegetable soup and turkey stuffing the best. He was the key person Mike relied on in our family moves. He was devoted to our family and our mother He had a pure and kind heart and many wonderful friends. Mostly Jim was lovable. My 8 year old Grandson said he would most miss Uncle Jim's tickles. Jim was a good brother and we will miss him in so many ways but we will especially miss his smile. Our family lost so much when we lost him but we gained an angel to look out for us. When we meet Jim again our family will once more be complete. May You Rest in Peace Dear Brother Mike & Eileen

Condolence From

Wed, 30 Nov -0001 00:00:00 EST

Dear Tom & Mary Jo, Charlie & Anne, & all the Sellers family, We were so sorry to hear about Jim's passing. We are thinking of you at this sad time and sending our thoughts and prayers. We hope your happy memories of your brother will give you comfort during this difficult time. Deepest condolences. Liz & Ed Voll